If consistency is the only indicator of good parenting, you’d be hard pressed to find good parenting here. My parenting style alters depending on what I’ve read most recently. I’m glad consistency is not the only indicator. Ensuring more-cuddles-than-meals, and more-meals-than-baths is also useful.
At least by world-schooling, WE are consistent. The relationship is present. Even if the methods change. And my favourite parenting writer Gordon Neufeld says parenting is not a set of skills, it’s a relationship.